FAQS

How do you teach The Intimate Dance without having sexual intercourse with people?

Mastering The Intimate Dance is kind of like learning how to waltz, or studying for a belt test in martial arts. You practice and memorize the moves until they become a part of your muscle memory and then it begins to happen effortlessly and automatically. It is easier to teach The Intimate Dance without having sex, because people tend to get performance anxiety and maintaining an erection becomes the focus of attention instead of memorizing the moves. Once the movements become second nature with practice, you don't have to think about them any more, and it is easier to maintain an erection. Changing positions becomes a graceful way of delaying ejaculation and prolonging the sexual engagement.



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How many people come to your group retreats?

Ideally 6-10. I don't have room for more than 12 right now.



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Where do you hold the retreats?

At my home, unless someone wants to host a retreat in their home for a work exchange.






















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Why should I learn The Intimate Dance?

There are no "shoulds" with regard to The Intimate Dance. It's not for everybody. But if you would like to have a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life, The Intimate Dance is a great way to spice up your love-making style with the spontaneity and creativity that many people are longing for. Mastering the love-making techniques requires a bit of practice and some dedication, but those who do it say that it changes their life. You only need to master two or three of the Eight Characteristics of a Sensual Virtuoso to become a much more skillful and competent lover than most.



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Can I attend an Intimate Dance retreat if I don't have a partner?

Yes. Retreats are open to singles, couples, and all genders.



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I have never done yoga. Do I have to be flexible?

The yoga we do at Intimate Dance Retreats is very basic and gentle. It specifically prepares people to do The Intimate Dance. While flexibility is advantageous while learning and practicing the Intimate Dance, the rest of the class requires no flexibility at all.



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Will people be having sex at the retreat, is that why there is nudity?

No you will be too busy learning and practicing what you've learned to engage in sex. One of the characteristics of a sensual virtuoso is knowing how to give a sensual massage. If a group would like to learn and practice sensual massage together, we may take turns getting on the table and receiving touch from 4,6,8 hands simultaneously. And some prefer to receive massage in the nude.



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Will people be upset if I don't want to take my clothes off?

You are perfectly welcome to leave your clothes on for the entire retreat. You can just observe or receive massage with your clothes on. The only time nudity enhances the experience for some people is when I teach massage.



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